The words of the late Queen Elizabeth II wander through my mind in these final hours of 2025.
Her Majesty, while giving a speech marking the 40th anniversary of her ascension to the crown, said 1992 was “not a year on which I shall look back with undiluted pleasure.”
She continued, “In the words of one of my more sympathetic correspondents, it has turned out to be an annus horribilis.”
While mine has not been “a disastrous or unfortunate year,” as Merriam-Webster defines the Latin words spoken by the Queen, there are ways all of us can make 2026 better than the year we’re leaving behind.
Little acts of kindness mean a lot. When positivity is put into the world, we all benefit. That’s not just my opinion; the National Institute of Health reports we become happier through spreading happiness.
It all starts with kindness.
The server who waits on you, either in the restaurant or drive-thru? Tell them they’re doing an excellent job, and you appreciate them. Even better: tell their manager.
Ask someone how they’re doing. And listen when they tell you. You may be the only person who has made them feel seen or valued that day.
Smile more. Smiles are free, they brighten up your face. Better yet, they’re contagious.
Send a card through snail mail — especially a “just because” or “I’m thinking of you” card.
Wave when you drive past a fellow motorist, whether you know them or not. Like smiles, waves are contagious.
Put away the phone, tablet or laptop when you’re spending time with special people. Googling that query will wait. You can always text later to tell them who that obscure actor was in that one show.
Say “please” and “thank you.” And mean it.
Forgive. It truly is divine. It is freeing to let go of that grudge living rent free in your heart and head.
Pay it forward. If you can afford it, buy a coffee or soft drink for the person in line behind you at the drive-thru. Pick up litter as you take your afternoon walk. Help someone carry their purchases to the car.
Give to our humanitarian agencies. Donate if you can afford it. Or volunteer. Either call or email and ask how they can use your talent. You may be surprised by the answer.
Make a difference on social media, often the repository for complaints and negativity. Share inspiration, funny thoughts, family photos, anything that promotes good feelings.
Treat others the way you want to be treated. It’s the Golden Rule, and it’s the first tenet of kindness.
Lastly, love and respect yourself. It’s sometimes the hardest thing we can do, but it’s the most essential.
2026 is looking better already. Happy New Year!
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Cheryl Duncan is editor of the Crossville Chronicle. She can be reached at cduncan@crossville-chronicle.com or 931-484-5145.